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Danielle Blumenau's avatar

I made my husband promise he wouldn't let IG trick me into thinking I had to do the elf. So glad i held strong!!!

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Anna De La Cruz's avatar

Yes - it's a trap!! 😉

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Nneka Kelly's avatar

I'm opting out of Christmas this year, though I'm listening to Christmas music as I type this:-) My mother is now using my 8-year old niece as leverage. I stand firm!

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Anna De La Cruz's avatar

It can be so hard to enforce our own boundaries - but good for you for protecting your own peace!

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Sarah Coomber's avatar

Yes to this, Anna! What a great reminder that we can choose not just what we do but also what we *don't* do.

I leaned a new word this year: kinkeeping. I'm realizing that the goal of keeping friends/family close is what's behind many traditions ... so the question becomes "which are the most effective at nurturing relationships?"

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